Question: A counselor once encouraged me to build on my strengths, rather than my weaknesses. But isn’t an awareness of my sin part of being a Christian? I want to improve as a husband, father, and a believer. How can I balance building on my strengths while acknowledging my limitations? Answer: Strength is a gift […]
What and when you should report
Question: I volunteer with the children’s ministry at my church, and want to make sure I’m doing the right thing if I ever suspect abuse or neglect. Can you summarize Illinois’ reporting laws, especially how they pertain to churches and ministries? Answer: Considering the prevalence of childhood abuse and neglect, your questions are both timely […]
The Counselor: Get ahead of holiday drama
Question: It’s almost Thanksgiving, and I’m dreading dinner at my parents’ house. We have deep political and religious differences, and somehow can’t seem to stay away from those topics when we’re all together. I want to be “salt and light” when I’m with them. How do I know when to speak up and when to […]
Grief that won’t let go
Question: My mother-in-law died a year ago, and my wife is still really struggling with her absence. We know she’s in heaven, but my wife depended on her mom to be a sounding board and encouragement in ways I can’t replicate. How should a Christian deal with grief that just won’t seem to fade? Answer: […]
The Counselor: When panic attacks
Question: I think I might have had a panic attack recently. Can you describe what one actually looks and feels like, and tell me what I can do if it happens again? Answer: First, the good news: Even though you may feel as if you are dying, a panic attack won’t kill you. A panic […]