Question: With everything going on in the world, I’m finding I have deep disagreements with people close to me, even those who share my faith. I’m withdrawing from some people because I don’t want to get into certain issues. Any tips for finding common ground, and saving my friendships? Answer: I appreciate (and share in) […]
The Counselor: Talking to kids about COVID-19
Question: Our kids, who are 7 and 9, are asking questions about what’s going on in the world. Our oldest in particular is quieter than she was a few months ago, and more withdrawn sometimes. We’re wondering if she could be dealing with some fear she’s not talking about. How can we help them? Answer: […]
Don’t grieve alone
We should probably refer to the emotions we are feeling now as “griefs,” rather than simply grief. The griefs we feel related to Covid-19 are complicated; we are grieving the loss of our way of life, the loss of loved ones, and unknown future loss. The most overwhelming grief of all is anticipatory grief, and […]
The Counselor on Coronavirus: Christ, our solid rock
Question: We’re a couple of weeks into the Coronavirus pandemic, without much sign of this “new normal” letting up for a while. Can you give me spiritual advice for this long-haul journey? Answer: I am writing this to myself as much as I’m writing it to you. It’s understandable we may be anxious or uncertain […]
Parenting in public
Question: We don’t have “Mommy wars” in our church, but there are obvious parenting differences that become apparent whenever families get together. The rambunctious kids get louder, and the quiet kids retreat to the room where the grown-ups are sometimes studying the Bible. Any ideas how to navigate our differences graciously? Answer: Before opening our […]