We should probably refer to the emotions we are feeling now as “griefs,” rather than simply grief. The griefs we feel related to Covid-19 are complicated; we are grieving the loss of our way of life, the loss of loved ones, and unknown future loss. The most overwhelming grief of all is anticipatory grief, and anticipatory grief is really anxiety.
Many of us have not experienced grief so complicated as this. Those who have had more than their fair share of past suffering know all too well how long it takes to recover. Pastor, if you feel you’re struggling to keep your head above water, remember that your head is being held above water for one reason only: you are doing the Lord’s work, the work he has called you to do. He is sustaining you, and protecting you in your service to others, right this minute.
To keep fighting that good fight, we must take care of our bodies and minds. We know we can rest in Jesus, and find support from those he has placed in our lives to prop us up. This is an opportunity to help and receive help from your fellow pastors. After all, who would know better what you are going through? And who could benefit most from your help?
Pathways Counseling is currently offering IBSA pastors and their wives three structured Telehealth sessions of anxiety counseling free of charge to help meet their immediate needs. Contact us at (618) 382-4164.
Mark McCormick is director of clinic operations for Illinois Baptist Children’s Home and Family Services. This devotion is adapted from his column in the Illinois Baptist newspaper.